Across the Pastor’s Desk: How to simplify spiritual lives
Published 9:40 am Friday, September 30, 2016
By Don Malinsky
Don Malinsky is a pastor at St. John’s Lutheran Community.
How did you survive the evening last week when the cable went out, the internet went down and no cell service was available?
If you, like me, had a panic attack, we are not alone. Maybe that’s the lesson to be learnt through this experience — we are more than our communication systems!
In light of this revelation I would like to offer a seven-day spiritual practice that I located in the Alive Now May/June 2015 magazine. It is entitled “Seven Days Toward Simplicity,” and is by Lynne M. Bash, a Presbyterian minister.
“Your sun shall no more go down, or your moon withdraw itself; for the Lord will be your everlasting light,” Isaiah 60:20.
Day 1: Simplicity of words
Today, pay attention to the ways you engage with words. As you read, write and speak, notice ways you tend to use too few or too many words. Try to interact with words as simply and clearly as you can. Spend some time praying for people who live with poverty of words, those who cannot read and write or find reading and writing difficult, and those who have little access to words in books, magazines, newspapers and the internet.
Day 2: Simplicity of possessions
Today, pay attention to the ways you think about and care for your possessions. Watch for what you are tempted to buy. Look through your own possessions and pick out something to give away. Pray and ponder carefully to whom to give it: a family member? A friend? A charity? Pray for those who live in poverty of possessions.
Day 3: Simplicity and nature
Today, watch for all the places you encounter God’s creation: clouds, trees, bushes, flowers, houseplants and the like. Pay attention to the shapes and colors. Ponder the pattern of your own life. How much simpler would your life be if you got more pleasure from nature? Pray for those who live in poverty with respect to nature, those in cities without green spaces and those who are affected by environmental degradation.
Day 4: Simplicity with money
Today, pay attention to your use of money and your thoughts and feelings about money. In what settings do you spend money mindlessly? Do you feel guilt, longing, fear or jealousy related to money? What kinds of wishes about money fill your thoughts? In what ways does generosity with money come easily to you, and in what ways do you resist generosity? Spend time praying for those who live with financial poverty. If you are able, make a financial gift, big or small, to an organization that serves the poor.
Day 5: Simplicity in relationships
Today, spend time watching the pattern of your relationships. For whom are you most grateful? Express that gratitude. Which relationships feel the most complicated? Ponder what simplicity in those relationships would look like: offering forgiveness? Expressing your concerns or priorities directly? Using fewer words and listening more when discussing difficult issues? Pray for people who live in relational poverty, those who experience loneliness and those in difficult or abusive relationships.
Day 6: Simplicity and silence
Today, notice your comfort with silence in prayer and silence in relationships. Can you sit in companionable silence before God? Do you feel a strong need to fill empty spaces with words? Can you listen quietly to people without constant thought about what you will say next? Pray for people who experience the poverty of constant noise.
Day 7: Simplicity in prayer
At its simplest, all verbal prayer can fit into two categories: “thank you” and “help.” For today, watch your patterns of prayer. Which do you find easiest, thank-you prayers or help prayers? What kind of thank-you prayers do you pray most often? What kind of help prayers? Do you get lost in too many words as you pray? Pray for those who live in spiritual poverty and do not know that God welcomes thank-you and help prayers from them.
So the next time our communication lines fail us, give simplicity a try, or better yet, practice it while they are up an running! Prayer, simplicity and action might just be the keys to surviving this exciting year of 2016.
God’s peace and simplicity be yours in and through Christ.